Be an exclamation mark!

Hey, did you ever have a look from the side on a person? Do you know that this tells a lot about a person?

People who are insecure, or uncomfortable have a different poise than people who are self-confident.

See them from the side. The shape of insecure people look like a question mark. The shape of self-assured people look like an exclamation mark.

There are also people who look like an exclamation mark which are insecure. You can spot them easily as they look like they are trying hard to look that way.

They are really tensed. Their speech is often aggressive. They think:” When I am hard people will respect me.”

That is a misunderstanding. Most people will simply stay away. Do you really want to be together with someone who is always discouraging, frightening you? Do you really want to risk the person to explode?

The only person who is in need of this behaviour is the person itself.

This person needs to behave that way to feel that it creates an impact to others or the world. They think people will listen to them. These person feels strong when minimizing others or scaring people.

They work hard. They are anxious to get appreciation. They always want to have something from others: appreciation! They miss to recognise that other people open them ways and possibilities.They miss to recognise the appreciation they get because they are busy longing for it.

Real self-confident people look like exclamation marks. They distinguish from the other ones because they look like it is easy to be upright. They move elegant, they are open-minded and friendly. These people are always supportive and paying it forward.

It is a pleasure to listen to them. When they step in a room the atmosphere gets brighter. Usually they are surrounded by people. Everyone wants to be near them. It is a joy to be close to them, they laugh and are vibrant.

Your body talks any moment. People who listen can get a lot out of it. Do you listen to your body? Do you listen what others tell you?

What your body tells is louder than your words. So be sure you talk in accordance with your body. That makes things easier.

What do you want your body to tell people?

You can change what your body tells others. When your shape looks like an question mark than you can develop to a self-confident person and your shape will look like an exclamation mark. All you have to do is get rid of the thinking, tensions and habits nurturing your doubts, your fears, your self-defeat.

Yes, I know it is work. Life is more fun when you are YOU.

When you are very tensed and think you have to work hard to let go you are right. Letting go thoughts and tension needs courage. Who knows what comes after you let go something? I think you will enjoy your life much more without lots of hard work and fighting.

In all cases you get better or extraordinary results with learning how to let go whenever you want to let go.

Be You, be your own exclamation mark!

Larissa Glueck,