Posted by Larissa in Activating | 2 Comments
The basics for Great decisions!
You know the feeling when you have to come up with an important decision right now, do you? You sit their resting your head in your hands: Now what? Or you run around restless. Either way, there is something better than that.
Also you might have your way to decide, there is still room for improvement, a better way or just a twist to get better results.
When you sometimes scratch your head what is the best option, or how should I decide and when should I decide? Than it is high time to improve your perception, set of criteria and the way you deal with yourself. All of that influences your way to decide.
The aim of each decision should be that you can face yourself in the mirror, right away, tomorrow, next week or in years.
Over the time the quality of your decisions is getting better and better or worse.
Excellent decision makers are sometimes wrong too. They have learned to learn from their mistakes. They are more often right than wrong. They know that the most crucial part in making decisions is them. That is the reason they develop themselves year after year, day after day. They know that developing oneself is the only way to stay on top.
What does influence your decision? 
Your perception is influencing your decision as it influences the information you get. When you are wearing glasses there is only a small area in which the lenses give you clear vision. This also depends on your current state as well as your vision as well as your voice adapt immediately to your conditions.
Over the time you get used to that limited perception. You turn your head to see what is in another direction and miss the information in the side areas. You see the world through two frames. So you might get an information to late or miss it totally.
You have to deal with less than the best information you can get. What are you going to do with the information you have? Are you just collecting them? Or are you connecting them to the information you already have? How do you connect and use your information.
YOUR WAY to deal with information you get influences your way of thinking and deciding.
Some are collectors of great information and store them. Lots of old books, outdated technique and other things. They do so because they suspect the information can be useful. It is because they are so focussed on collecting they miss the part of connecting the information to each other and letting go of outdated. People who are good in that need some help to connect those information and create something new out of it.
Some are quite good in creating something new of the information they get. They eat lots of information too nurture themselves. Then they develop in a puppet to develop something new and beautiful out of it.
They are quite skilled to use their creative intelligence. They often are thankful when someone helps them to organise their ideas and support them using those and blew life into their ideas.
Your way to deal with yourself influence your perception. When you are always tensed you reduce the range of your muscles and make circulation of nutrition through your body difficult. That reduces the function of your cells, muscles, organs and whole system. That affects your eyes as well as your digestion, blood circulation, breathing…… You feel always the power inside you that wants to get used so that your body can release the tension. Like a runner before the start.
What now? Start developing your perception, make it more reliable and trustworthy. Take the information you get and appreciate it. Then decide upon it. While you do that learn to deal with yourself in a way that improve your perception. Learn to let go of tension and strengthen your muscles and hone your skills.
Let go of limiting believes and convictions. Let go of the tension that is coming with limiting thoughts and feelings. start challenging yourself. Do the opposite from things you commonly do or at least vary them a bit. Each day one or two, this stimulates your brain and body cells. Over time this will lead to new insides and ideas. It also lead to different results.
Enjoy discovering how let go opens beautiful decorated yet closed doors wide for you.
The better your perception gets the better information you gain. The more tension you let go, the stronger your muscles get and the more you can get from your brain. Letting go means learning and developing in all areas of life. It increases the way of deciding and opting by improving your perception and set of criteria.
YOU get the best YOU by honing your skills and improving the interaction within YOU. That interaction within you provides you with the tools you need to come up with the best decision.
Opt for the BEST you Can: YOU at your best! Discover what is inside you!
Larissa Glueck
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photographers: uter: CITT; frames for eyeglasses: dinny; boks: nkzs; caterpillar: im2c; runner: mzacho; skyscrapercleaner: sebadanon; door: sarei





wonderful piece Larissa
certainly food for thought.
making decisions, and living with the consequences of them,has been a challenge for me lately
Keep up the good work
Diana
Thank you Diana,
good luck on facing your challenges. I hope the thoughts you come up with help you to step up.
The best you can do is strengthening you by letting go overcoming habits, convictions, feelings.
I know that is challenging and sometimes creates mixed feelings. Go on anyhow as this frees your energy, clears your perception and creates good feelings.
The transforming is challenging as well. You will be happy when you are through. After some time you are comfortable with recognising mixed feelings as you know it is part of stepping up.
Keep your chin up and do what it takes to step up
Larissa